@tweetsbymoi Not quite on a daily basis, and there are bright spots of course, and lovely indivuduals who cross our paths who remind us it’s not universal… but persistent enough crap that we’ve given up on the idea living her even medium term would be a healthy choice for our son. *shrug* @tweetsbymoi Well, eventually, maybe. (That depends on massive social forces, etc.)

But the timescales are such that I except this things won’t be at all different in practical terms even when my son is my age.