@nadiabulkin Rejection sucks, but often can have more to do with the rejecter’s emotional needs/issues not quite meshing just so. Therapists comment about how many people partner w/folks with the exact same relationship issues as their parents, hoping they can resolve them this time around. @nadiabulkin (This isn’t always a bad thing!)

Which is to say, looks is often a much smaller element of things than this other stuff, much less “conventional” attractiveness.